Why are bad words such a taboo? In reality, I don't see such a harm in saying them... (ironically enough, I don't like saying them!) I watched a Vsauce video on profanity but I still don't get it. Anyone care to explain?

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It's not so much the profane words as most people have become immune to them...it is the tone of the voice behind them when they are used.

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Kioyre S.
Kioyre S. commented
I suppose you're right there, but why?? Why isn't "television" a 'bad word', but another word for someone going to the bathroom is? It doesn't make that much sense, but history has made it so.
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Didge Doo answered

Some people, whether rightly or not, are offended by strong language. Good manners dictate that we don't use it when it's likely to offend.

I was once talking to a religious computer geek and a Chinese nurse when the term SNAFU came up. She hadn't heard it before and I explained it was an acronym and meant, "Situation normal, all fouled up."

The geek laughed and said, "I wondered how you were going to clean that up." but I hadn't cleaned it up for the nurse: She didn't mind if I swore. I cleaned it up because of his religious background."

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Kioyre S.
Kioyre S. commented
Mhm... But how does it tie in with having a religious background? I'd think it's more like "You shouldn't curse people and - most importantly - God", not that bad words (directed at no one in particular) are bad. But okay, thanks!
Didge Doo
Didge Doo commented
In Oz at least, religious people -- particularly the holy Joes -- tend to avoid swearing. It's just a matter of respect for their beliefs.
I would have thought that was the situation with most evangelical Christians (the non-evangelicals swear as much as any of us.)
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Corey The Goofyhawk , Epic has no limit, answered

Many profanities are more of a cultural design. Many cultures and countries do not have the same profanities as we do in America. Example: On a missions trip to an island in the Caribbean, my sister learned of a few words that they flew around carelessly that we in the States consider offensive. According to their culture, those words were not considered offensive. Best of luck to you!

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Kioyre S.
Kioyre S. commented
Thank you. As everyone is basically saying, it's how something is said or someone's culture that may define how profanity is viewed... I get this. It's mostly how this came to be... why bad words are different in other places... why some words are bad and others aren't... That sort of thing. But thank you very much!
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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Guess it all goes back to the way youre raised as to how one feels about them. I was taught that people who use them often don't have much of a vocabulary knowledge so they constantly use bad words for everything. The younger Generation hears them all the time in Rap music so they've become deaf to hearing them but the older Generation will get offended as many of us are old fashioned in the reality of bad words

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John Doe
John Doe commented
Exactly! Well stated!
Kioyre S.
Kioyre S. commented
I understand that as well. I agree that the younger generation has sought to use bad words so carelessly, as to flaunt it somehow, haha. My question was more so as to how these words originated to become bad in he first place...

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