Naw they sound obnoxious to me, not saying that the men are, they just sound it
I would think women with New York accents would.
Depends from which borough, how not ghetto you are, and whether or not you smell like cigarettes. Also, I might feel a bit iffy if you're Jewish. "Where's ya muthaa? Am burnin ma tuches of"
I find that American accents can get annoying quite quickly, so I'd say no.