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How Can I Overcome Emotional Distress?

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lakeesha Hennessy Williams Profile
Everyone will have their own way of dealing with difficult situations. Emotional distress can be really difficult to overcome, and I hope the following advice is of use to you.

Overcoming emotional distress

There are a whole load of pills and potions that people take these days to get over their emotional problems in life.

Call me old-fashioned, but I think that popping anti-anxiety pills like Xanax and Valium is hardly going to help you 'overcome' any emotional problems you might be experiencing.

They might be able to 'cover up' the problem for a while, but I'm a big believer in dealing with your issues up front.

Friends and family can be key to tackling your life problems.

As a Christian, I take great comfort and support from my local church community.

In fact, I would really recommend looking to God for guidance and support during emotional distress.  Having a strong faith to fall back on will see you through the toughest of times.

And even if you've been away from God for some period of time, he will always accept you back with open arms!

Dealing with grief and distress

Life is guaranteed to throw difficult times into our path. I believe life is a constant test, and we shouldn't be afraid to reach out for help when times get tough.

Following a major distressing event, the last thing you might want to do is open yourself up to the world. When my auntie died last year, I felt exactly like that.

We were really close, and I felt angry that she had been taken away from me so soon. At the same time, I found it really hard to talk to people about the situation.

In the end, I managed to confide in someone from my church community, and they shared their experiences of loss - and this made me feel a bit better.

I wouldn't say it solved all my problems, but it certainly took that feeling of 'I'm all alone in the world' off my shoulders.

I guess the moral of the story is: Don't be afraid to reach out. Whether it be to a friend, family member, your church, or even your doctor - the hardest step is making that initial connection.
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Anonymous answered
Personally, to overcome emotional distress I'd keep to myself, on a low key before just breaking down.

Just write down how you feel and if that doesn't work, write some kind of poems.

If you feel like it, share those poems with someone - and if that doesn't work I think the best thing to do is to go to a doctor.
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E Jacobson answered
It can be very difficult to overcome emotional distress and, if the distress has been very traumatic, it may be helpful to talk over your feelings with a doctor. 

A doctor may be able to prescribe some kind of drug therapy or refer you to see a psychologist or counsellor. 

It is also possible to see a counsellor independently (i.e without being referred by your doctor) and this may help you to learn how to relax and accept the trauma that you have experienced. 

Psychotherapy is also recognised as being a useful tool for dealing with emotional distress, but this is a long term solution. 

In the short term, if you do not feel that prescribed medicines are for you, then herbal supplements such as Valerian or Passiflora may help.  Some herbal tablets such as selenium or 5htp are also thought to be useful.

Recent studies have also suggested that exercise can help since the endorphins released after 20 minutes or so of vigorous exercise actually lifts the mood within the brain.

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